My A – Z Codependency Challenge – N

I had a very busy day so I’m a little too exhausted to dig deep. So, here’s another short and sweet…

Neediness, Numb, Negligence

In my neediness (wanting or needing affection, attention, or reassurance, especially to an excessive degree) I was numb (emotionally unresponsive; indifferent) to the negligence (failure to take proper care in doing something) I was perpetrating on my children and myself.

Today I have priorities. I am able to take care of “me” first (however that looks at that moment) so that I am able to give of myself in a healthier way. I no longer rely on others to fulfill my emotional needs. It’s just an added bonus when they do but not a requirement for me to love myself because…

I NAIL IT these days!