Encouragement for the Codependent
For a long time, I didn’t want to feel everything. There were some days, I didn't want to feel anything! If something hurt, I tried to move past it quickly. If something made me uncomfortable, I pushed it aside. I told myself to stay strong, to keep going, to not let emotions slow me down.... Continue Reading →
Asking for help didn’t come naturally to me. For a long time, I believed I should be able to handle everything on my own. I told myself I didn’t need help. That I had it under control. That I could figure it out if I just tried hard enough. Looking back, I can see it... Continue Reading →
Saying no didn’t always come easily to me. For a long time, I believed that saying yes meant I was being helpful, supportive, and dependable. It meant I was showing up for others in the way I thought I was supposed to. So I said yes. Even when I was tired.Even when I didn’t have... Continue Reading →
Rest used to feel like something I had to earn. If I worked hard enough, did enough, showed up for everyone, then maybe I could take a break. Maybe then I could slow down without feeling guilty. But even in moments of rest, my mind didn’t always rest. There was always something else I should... Continue Reading →
Sometimes the hardest part of healing isn’t knowing what to do next. It’s finding the courage to let go of what we’ve been holding onto. For a long time, I didn’t realize how tightly I was holding on to things that were weighing me down. Old hurts. Expectations. The need to fix everything. The belief... Continue Reading →
I spent a lot of time believing that healing meant fixing everything as quickly as possible. My mind said, “If all is well, then I’m okay.” If someone needed me, I showed up.If something needed to get done, I took it on.If someone was struggling, I tried to fix it. I told myself that this... Continue Reading →
Lately, I’ve been noticing something different in myself…a quiet ability to let life feel good without questioning it. I used to carry so much, old wounds, self-doubt, the need to hold everything together. Even in moments that were meant to be fun, part of me stayed guarded. But healing has changed that. Healing looks like... Continue Reading →
Part of the Healing Looks Like series on Journey On Strong Healing doesn’t always look the way we expect it to. It isn’t always dramatic breakthroughs, big realizations, or perfectly put-together moments of strength. Often, healing shows up quietly in the small choices we make each day. These are the moments when we choose rest,... Continue Reading →
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