Week 47: A Letter to My Younger Self

What I Wish You Knew Before Recovery

Dear Younger Me,

I wish I could sit beside you for a moment. Not to change your path or warn you about what is coming, but to offer a little comfort for the heaviness you’re carrying. You try so hard to keep everything together, yet so often you feel like you are crumbling inside. You think you have to earn love by fixing, pleasing, or disappearing into someone else’s needs. You believe that if you are good enough, quiet enough, patient enough, everything will finally fall into place.

I want to tell you something gently. You are not broken. You never were. You are simply trying to survive with the tools you have, and you are doing the best you can in a world that taught you to put yourself last.

There will come a day when you stop running. You will step into a new chapter that feels both terrifying and freeing. You will learn words like boundaries, self-compassion, and emotional safety. At first they will feel foreign, but they will become your foundation. You will learn that you can love people without sacrificing yourself in the process. You will discover that your needs matter and your voice has value.

You will also stumble. You will sometimes fall back into old patterns because they feel familiar. That is not failure. That is being human. Recovery is not a straight line and there is no finish line. But you will keep moving, and you will grow stronger, softer, wiser, and more grounded than you ever imagined.

Younger Me, I want you to know this. You are worthy of a life that feels peaceful. You deserve relationships that nourish you instead of drain you. You get to rest. You get to choose. You get to start over as many times as you need.

One day you will look back at the girl who tried so hard to hold the world together and you will feel nothing but tenderness for her. She carried so much. She survived so much. And she is the reason you are becoming who you are now.

Thank you for your strength. Thank you for your hope. Thank you for not giving up before you knew what was possible.

With love,
Your Future Self

What is one thing you wish your younger self could understand about who you are today?

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Join me on this blogging challenge. Visit the page and download the PDF. I would love to read your story! 

• Week 47 – Blogging Challenge for Codependency Recovery:
  • What I’ve Learned About Myself: Highlight insights from the journey.
• Week 47– Blogging Challenge for Advanced Codependency Recovery:
  • A Letter to My Younger Self: Offer wisdom and encouragement to the person you were before recovery.

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